Our Choices…

Misc 015

Everything in our lives is about choices we make daily…  Others cannot make those choices for us…  We have an obligation to ourselves to make the correct choices for us and no one else…  We cannot go around blaming others when something goes wrong…  It is not their fault…

We have a choice to continue to be stuck or get unblocked…  We have a choice to forgive and move on rather than hold on to grudges for an eternity spilling over to our next life… Do you really want to come back to relive every contorted situation over and over again until you get it right?  I sure don’t…  I decide when I’m going through the drama whether I want to release the judgment and suffering or move on.  It is my choice to make and not the other way around…

Don’t get sucked into someone else’s drama either…  Not yours to take on… How long can you dwell on something before you decide to let it go?  Sometimes we have no control over the situation so why suffer? If you can dwell on pain and drama, then certainly you can also dwell on beauty and positive thinking…

Most of you must be saying, “Easier said than done”…  Yes it is, but not that difficult either…  When the thought comes in, acknowledge it and then start thinking about the good times in your life…  Eventually, you will begin to think pleasant thoughts…  It starts with an awareness…  Know thyself and be truthful to yourself…  You are the only person who really knows you…

We are humans and we make mistakes daily…  We’re far from perfect, but we can try to live in peace, love, harmony, and joy…  It start with “US”…  You cannot change anyone else but ourselves…  When we begin to change, others will automatically follow because they want to feel the joy too…  It all starts with us…

As I said, we are humans and we’re not perfect.  Our ego gets the better of us sometimes… But in those moments, (again I emphasize) acknowledge it, laugh at yourself, and let it go…  See the humor in it and laugh at those senseless moments…  Don’t be so hard at yourself…  Just break the old patterns of behavior…  The more you do it, the better you get at it and then your mind will be on automatic…  Your actions will speak louder than words…

Every day is a new challenge, but never give up…

About lumar1298

Love to read, write, and meditate. I Also have a creative side. I enjoy crafting and designing and when I want action, then I dance.
This entry was posted in On my Mind and tagged , , , , . Bookmark the permalink.

A penny for your thought...

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s