Pause whatever you’re doing, and ask the person nearest you what they’re thinking about (call someone if you have to). Write a post based on it.
I phoned my friend this morning to ask what she was thinking and perhaps it was a huge mistake… She was all concerned that the air conditioning guy would be late… He’s suppose to get to her house between two and four and she seems to think he’ll get there late and show-up at six. Then, she’ll miss the 3:30 mass. I told her to go to church on Sunday, but she doesn’t want to be flexible and change her plans and prefers to continue to worry. It’s consuming her and no matter what I say, she finds an excuse to continue with the drama… I’m not winning here; therefore, I decided to leave it alone and just send her white light and love…
Maybe one day she’ll understand to let things be and be happy… There are some things you simply cannot change and it is a waste of time to let it bother you… She’s not going to change the outcome by worrying ahead of time so why worry… I’ve tried explaining, but she does not understand… I have to pick and choose my battles and this is one I will not win…
My favorite expression is, “Such is Life”…
Let There be Peace on Earth 
Everything you said is so true. Why worry about something that you can’t change, just adapt your schedule and be open to other options. Plan for the worst and hope for the best as they say. And it’s smart to choose your battles wisely or you’ll get caught up in the drama too.
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They’ll pull you in if you let them… I’ve learned to back off and leave… Best way to handle something that cannot be changed…
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Yep. 🙂
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